sanctasedes asked: hmm... saying that someone "wasn't man enough to cope" is dismissive to the fact that they realized and felt what was happening in the moment, rather than looking back after learning how to recognize these things only to be left with remorse and longing. Another way to look at it is that he was man enough to address his feelings at that time, rather than running away and dealing with them when it was convenient.
well that is the thing…I feel he is addressing this now…by saying fuck “us”…he should have shut me off like 4 or even 5 years ago when this shit that I did to him was starting…he shouldn’t have taken it like he did…I wouldn’t have.
he feels the last 5 years where stolen from him.
and he is right.
but
he let that happen
Does that make sense…
he wasn’t addressing the situation, he was stuffing his emotions inside himself till they became a massive growth that had eaten his soul somewhere
